22 Things Happy People Do Differently

To follow is an abbreviated version of a message I recently received from Intero’s President and CEO that I thought you would find valuable.

By Gino Blefari
President & CEO
Intero Real Estate Services, Inc.

Being happy in life is the first step to success, in my mind.  Contrary to popular belief, it doesn’t come from fame, fortune, other people, or material possessions. Rather, it comes from within. You can choose to be happy or you can choose to be unhappy.  It’s all up to you.  Happy people are happy because they make themselves happy. They maintain a positive outlook on life and remain at peace with themselves.

The question is: how do they do that?

It’s quite simple. Happy people have good habits that enhance their lives. They do things differently. Check out this great list that outlines some of the things that make happy people, well, happy.  It was written by Chiara Fucarino, a freelance writer, on the blog Successify! and was recommended to me by Eric Rees, Intero’s Director of Information Technology.

Ask any happy person, and they will tell you that they …

  1. Don’t hold grudges.
  2. Treat everyone with kindness.
  3. See problems as challenges.
  4. Express gratitude for what they already have.
  5. Dream big.
  6. Don’t sweat the small stuff.
  7. Speak well of others.
  8. Never make excuses.
  9. Get absorbed into the present.
  10. Wake up at the same time every morning.
  11. Avoid social comparison.
  12. Choose friends wisely.
  13. Never seek approval from others.
  14. Take the time to listen.
  15. Nurture social relationships.
  16. Meditate.
  17. Eat well.
  18. Exercise.
  19. 19.   Live minimally.
  20. Tell the truth.
  21. Establish personal control
  22. Accept what cannot be changed.

About marilynsellshollisterrealestate

I am a native Californian born in Los Angeles and have resided in San Benito County since January 30, 1959. I attended the University of Southern California. I am a licensed Real Estate Broker, license #00409787, active for almost 45 years. I started my career in 1972 and still am totally committed to the highest level of service to my clients. I am currently associated with Intero Real Estate Services. I am Past President of the San Benito Association of Realtors, serving in the role on numerous occasions. I was a Director of the California Association of Realtors for over 18 years, having served on numerous committees. I also served 2 terms representing the California Association of Realtors at the National level, NAR. I am a certified SRES (Senior Real Estate specialist), since 2005. My community involvement has included membership in the Hollister Rotary Club, serving as their first woman President in 2002. In the late 1960's, I became a member of the El Torillo Chapter of Children's Home Society, and served as President, and was also President of the Tri-County Council of CHS, which is today Kinship Center, and I am currently a Senior Active. I am a member of the San Benito Chamber of Commerce. From 2002-2008, I served on the Board of the Hollister Downtown Association and was their President from 2006-2007, and still serve on sub-committees of this organization. And, I am currently serving my 3rd term on the Community Foundation. My record of performance and my reputation have made me who I am in the industry. I am a household name in San Benito County, when you think of Real Estate. My name is recognized not only in Hollister, but in our neighboring counties, Monterey, Santa Cruz and Santa Clara counties. I have been involved in land development, marketed several subdivisions, sold ranches, commercial leasing, bank-owned properties, short sales and own a Property Management Company, Hollister Rental Properties, for more than 35 years. I am proud of my sales record and for the majority of my career I have been in the top 1% of major Real Estate Companies including Van Vleck Realtors, Cornish and Carey, Contempo, Seville-Contempo, Century 21, Coldwell Banker and finally Intero Real Estate services for the last 15 years. Using my skills in negotiating, mediation and transaction closure, during 2010 and 2011, I was involved with the City of Hollister's First Time Home Buyer Down Payment Assistance Program. The program was the City's Redevelopment Agency, under Bill Avera, with the assistance of CJ Valenzuela who was working with the County of San Benito. CHISPA, a non-profit, was responsible for restoring homes to equal to new condition that the City had taken back in foreclosure, or that they had acquired. When the homes were restored, we put them on the Multiple Listing Service and we went out and promoted the City's Down Payment Assistance Program. Buyers were screened and qualified by our preferred lenders. I facilitated workshops for First Time Buyers explaining the programs. I negotiated the contracts for the City of Hollister and with the Buyers. With this program, I closed 2 homes in 2010, and 4 homes in 2011. On a personal note, I am married to Richard Ferreira, a retired General Contractor/Developer. We have a combined family of six daughters, six grandsons and 3 granddaughters. We share commons interests in travel, movies, entertaining, and Richard has picked up my love of cooking. Our spare time is spent with family and enjoying our grandchildren.
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